We are looking for a semi-transparent stain that would have a gray color to it, to match our house. I noticed Defy and Armstrong Clark both make stains available in a gray. Are there others I should be aware of? We had found a color we liked from Behr but then did some research and don't like the reputation of the product!!!
Both Defy and Armstrong Clark make decent gray colors. I would choose one of those.
Also take a look at TWP's 100 line. They have two grays