CEDAR DECK IS FLAKING and I need to the process to reseal it.

Hello everyone! I really need advice on my deck and fence. I live in denver and I built this deck and fence 5 yrs ago. The story goes... I initially applied behr clear stain on the 1st year. It flaked and Behr came clean and said there was an issue with their batch. A yr later, I washed, sanded and applied the same stain again ( behr sent me $1000 in credit and had the same problem. Fast forward to 2022, I went with Sherrwin Williams Super deck semi transparent sealer. I power washed, sanded some areas and the applied it. Now i'm left with this. The deck is peeling and I need to find a way to persevere this expensive deck and fence. 

Can anyone please guide me through this? Do I get the Super deck sealer removal and apply and use a stiff brush to remove it? then sand? and apply a wood reviver product? Then seal it?

We want to keep the look of a semi transparent look. 

In what order should I perform this project and what products do you recommend?  Power wash?

I can't thank you enough for everyones professional opinion!